A Picture Never To Be Forgotten - His Mother's Blessing - Her Puritan
Ancestry - Her Conversion - D. L. Moody's Tribute to His Mother - Verses
She Had Marked.
Devotion to his mother was a duty
and a privilege second only to devotion to his God, in the mind of Mr. Moody.
When at home in Northfield, he never failed to look in upon his mother in her
cottage early every morning, to give her a hearty greeting, and to see that
she was provided with every comfort and many luxuries. When away, no matter how many times a day he preached, nor how many informal
meetings he personally conducted, a letter was posted to his mother at frequent
intervals in which she was told at length of the success of the meetings. A PICTURE NEVER TO BE FORGOTTEN During the last years of her life, when failing health prevented her from attending
public worship, the devoted son never forgot tile aged mother, and he often
arranged for her to hear the noted speakers and singers of the conferences.
There is one picture associated with Northfield I can never forget It had to
do with one of the summer conferences. Some one had been asking about Mr. Moody's
mother, and he had spoken to a few of those who gathered about him and said,
"We might have a little service just at her house on the lawn, for she
is not able to be out; "and so a number of distinguished Christian
workers gathered just outside her window, sang the hymn she loved, prayed Gods
special blessing upon her and her distinguished son, and then one after the
other spoke some word of appreciation of their visit to Northfield. I was standing
just by Mr. Moody's side, and I heard him say to one of his friends, "I
always thought she. had such a beautiful face," and as he looked at her
the tears started in his own eyes, rolled down his cheeks, and he said with
much emotion to a distinguished English Christian standing by his side, "
I think she has been the best mother in the world." HIS MOTHERS BLESSING Once again when many young men were gathered from all over the eastern part
of our country in the World's Students' Conference, Mr. Moody said:
"You know my mother is an
old lady. She is too feeble to attend these meetings. She is deeply interested
in this work, and she has prayed earnestly for its success. I want her to
hear some of you speak and sing. We are going up the mountain this afternoon
to pray for the baptism of the Holy Spirit. Meet me at my house at three o'clock.
We will have a little service there and then I want you to go on to my mother's
home, and I want some of you to speak, and we will all sing.
"I want you to receive my mother's blessing before we go to the mountains
to pray, for next to the blessing of God I place that of my mother."
The three hundred anxious pilgrims
who gathered on Mr. Moody's spacious lawn that afternoon, and who, after a brief
service of song and prayer, journeyed on to the mother's cottage and later to
the mountain top, presented a picture never to be forgotten by the members of
that company. Much that is here written is his own words concerning her. I have an Old mother
away down in the Connecticut Mountains," Mr. Moody used to say, "and
I have been in the habit of going to see her ever year for twenty years. Suppose
I go there and say, ' Mother, you were very kind to me when I was young--
you were very good to me; when father died you worked hard for us all to keep
us together, and so I have come to see you, because it is my duty. Then she
would say to me, 'Well, my son, if you only come to see me, because it
is your duty, you need not come again. And that is the way with a great many
servants of God. They work for Him, because it is their duty - not for love.
Let us abolish this word duty, and feel that it is only a privilege to work
for God, and let us try to remember that what is done merely from a sense of
duty is not acceptable to God." And so it was. Year after year, in the very heat of those spiritual campaigns
which brought him prominently before the people of the two continents, Mr. Moody
would slip away regularly to the spot where, amid the serene surroundings of
the Northfield hills, his mother sat with her thoughts upon him and his work,
praising God who had permitted her boy to become the instrument of so much blessing.
HER PURITAN ANCESTRY Betsey Holton, the mother of Dwight L. Moody, was a descendant in the fifth
generation of William Holton, one of the first settlers of Northfield. In fact,
this ancestor was one of that committee of the General Council of Massachusetts
which laid out the plantation of Northfield, after it had been purchased from
the Indians in 1673. The marriage of Betsey Holton to Edwin Moody united two
strains of old Puritan blood. Doubtless this lineage accounts in no slight degree
for the restless energy and dogged earnestness of the son, Dwight. "I always thought that Dwight would be one thing or the other," the
dear old woman once remarked. Where others had failed to see, she had early
recognised the hardiness of the boy's character, - hardiness which she must
have seen through its very kinship with her own. For her schooling had not been
easy. Left a widow with nine children, a small house, and an acre or so of heavily
mortgaged land, she had taken upon her womanly shoulders the full responsibility
of bringing up her family. Tilling the ground, and doing odd jobs for the neighbours,
she continued to scrape together enough to keep her children fed and clothed,
although the margin between plenty and want was frequently so slim as to bar
out comfort. There were times when no food seemed forthcoming; but a Providence
whose care extends even to the sparrows did not permit the burden to become
too heavy for this widowed mother, although her resources were often taxed to
the utmost. YOUNG MOODY AT THE VILLAGE SCHOOL Every day she taught the children a little Bible lesson, and on Sundays accompanied
them to the Unitarian Sunday school. They were sent, too, to the village school.
Dwight was as loth as the average young boy to endure the discipline of the
school-room. It is not hard to picture him "with shining morning
face, creeping like snail unwillingly to school." But the wise mother knew.
Seeds were being scattered in the fertile heart and mind of the boy: and if
they did not seem to sprout at once, perhaps it was for the very reason that
they had not been sown in a shallow soil. The Rev. Dr. Theodore Cuyler, when he first met Mrs. Moody, turned to her son,
and said, "I see now where you got your vim and your hard sense!"
Others remarked the same resemblance of the son to his mother. I speak of this
merely to make it evident how much he owed her. However completely she came into sympathy with her son's work in later years,
at the outset of his labours his mother did not give him her sanction. She herself
was a member of a non-evangelical church. For a long time she did not even hear
her son preach. How he finally not only convinced her of his fitness for his
work, but also became the means of leading her into the higher life has been
related by a close friend of the family in the following words HIS MOTHERS CONVERSION In 1875 he returned to his home in Northfield to preach, shortly after coining
back to America from one or his great London successes. The family still lived
on the Old farm, and still drove to town to Sunday meeting in the Old farm wagon,
just as they used to in the days gone by. Most of the members of the family
Were going to drive to town that morning to hear Dwight preach. The mother startled
a daughter by saying to her:
"I don't suppose there would
be room in the wagon for me this Morning, would there? "
No one had ever thought of the mother
unbending and going to hear her son. "Of course there will be room, mother," said the daughter. And the mother was taken down to the church with the rest. Mr. Moody preached
from the fifty - first Psalm, and preached with a fervor that was probably inspired
by the presence of his mother. When those who wished prayer were asked to arise,
old Mrs. Moody stood up. The son was completely overcome, and, turning to B. F. Jacobs, now of Chicago,
said with emotion, "You pray, Jacobs, I can't. " When he returned to Northfield after some evangelical tour, Mr. Moody would
invariably drive directly to see his mother, to receive her welcome, even before
joining his immediate family. Sitting in her sunny room the kindly, keen, Old
lady would give to her son kernels of sound wisdom with the blessing of her
approval. She was permitted to remain in this world until her ninety-first year. When
at the last she began to sink, it was not thought by those about her that there
was any immediate danger, and Mr. Moody, who was at the time conducting services
in a distant city, was not informed as to the state of her health. But toward
the close of a week of meetings the evangelist grew restless. He felt a strange
intuition that his presence was needed at home, and, for no other reason, he
cancelled his engagement and started for Northfield. He arrived in time to receive
her blessing. At his mother's funeral, acting upon an impulse, Mr. Moody delivered a touching
tribute to her memory. Mrs. William R. Moody had concluded her song "Crossing
the Bar," when the evangelist rose from his place with the family, and,
bearing in his hands the old family Bible, and a worn book of devotions, came
forward. Standing by the body of his mother, he said: HIS TRIBUTE TO HIS MOTHER
"It is not the custom, perhaps,
for a son to take part in such an occasion. If I can control myself I would
like to say a few words. It is a great honor to be the son of such a mother.
I do not know where to begin; I could not praise her enough. In the first
place my mother was a very wise woman. In one sense she was wiser than Solomon'
she knew how to bring up her children. She had nine children and they all
loved their home. She won their hearts, their affections, she could do anything
with them.
"Whenever I wanted real sound counsel I used to go to my mother. I have
travelled a good deal and seen a good many mothers, but I never saw one who
had such tact as she had. She so bound her children to her that it was a great
calamity to have to leave home. I had two brothers that lived in Kansas and
died there. Their great longing was to get back to their mother. My brother
who died in Kansas a short time ago had been looking over the Greenfield papers
for some time to see if he could not buy a farm in this locality. He had a
good farm there, but he was never satisfied; he wanted to get back to mother.
That is the way she won them to herself. I have heard something within the
last forty-eight hours that nearly broke my heart. I merely mention it to
show what a character she was. My eldest sister, her oldest daughter, told
me that the first year after my father died she wept herself to sleep every
night. Yet, she was always bright and cheerful in the presence of her children,
and they never knew anything about it. Her sorrows drove her to Him, and in
her own room , after we were asleep, I would wake up and hear her praying,
and sometimes I would hear her weeping. She would be sure her children were
all asleep before she would pour out her tears.
IT IS A GREAT THING TO HAVE SUCH
A GREAT MOTHER
"And there was another thing
remarkable about my mother. If she loved one child more than another, no one
ever found it out. Isaiah, he was her first boy; she could not get along without
Isaiah. And Cornelia, she was her first girl; she could not get along without
Cornelia, for she had to take care of the twins. And George, she couldn't
live without George. What could she ever have done without George? He staid
right by her through thick and thin. She couldn't live without George. And
Edwin, he bore the name of her husband. And Dwight, I don't know what she
thought of him. And Luther, he was the dearest of all, because he had to go
away to live. He was always homesick to get back to mother. And Warren, he
was the youngest when father died; it seemed as if he was dearer than all
the rest. And Sam and Lizzie, the twins, they were the light of her great
sorrow.
She never complained of her children. It is a great thing to have such a mother,
and I feel like standing up here to-day to praise her. And just here I want
to say before I forget it, you don't know how she appreciated the kindness
which was shown her in those days of early struggle. Sometimes I would come
home and say, such a man did so and so, and she would say, "Don't say
that, Dwight; he was kind to me"
"THE BIGGEST LOAD OF WOOD
I EVER SAW"
My father died a bankrupt, and
the creditors came and swept everything we had. They took everything, even
the kindling wood; and there came on a snowstorm, and the next morning mother
said we would have to stay in bed until school-time, because there was no
wood to make a fire. Then, all at once, I heard some one chopping wood, and
it was my Uncle Sam. I tell you I have always had a warm heart for that uncle
for that act. And that night there came the biggest load of wood I ever saw
in my life. It took two yoke of oxen to draw it. It was that uncle that brought
it. That act followed me all through life, and a good many acts, in fact.
Mr. Everett, the pastor of the Unitarian Church, I remember how kind he was
in those days. I want to testify to-day how my mother appreciated that.
"I remember the first thing I did to earn money was to turn the
neighbour's cows up on Strowbridge Mountain. I got a cent a week for it. I
never thought of spending it on myself. It was to go to mother. It went into
the common treasury. And I remember when George got work we asked who was
going to mill the cows. Mother said she would milk. She also made our clothes
and wove the cloth, and spun the yarn, and darned our stockings and there
was never any complaining.
I thought so much of my mother I cannot say half enough. That dear face! There
was no sweeter face on earth. Fifty years I have been coming back and was
always glad to get back. When I got within fifty miles of home I always grew
restless and walked up and down the car. It seemed to me as if the train would
never get to Northfield. For sixty-eight years she has lived on that hill,
and when I came back after dark, I always looked to see the light in mother's
window.
IN TIME TO RECEIVE HER BLESSING
When I got home last Sunday night
I was going to take the four o'clock train from New York and get here at twelve
I had some business to do; but I suppose it was the good Lord that sent me;
I took the twelve o'clock train and got here at five - I went in to my mother.
I was so glad I got back in time to be recognised. I said, ' Mother,
do you know me? She said, 'I guess I do.' I like that word, that Yankee
word 'guess. 'The children were all with her when she was taking
her departure. At last I called, Mother, mother. No answer. She had fallen
asleep; but I shall call her again by-and-by. Friends, it is not a time of
morning. I want you to understand we do not mourn. We are proud that we had
such a mother. We have a wonderful legacy left us.
One day mother sent for me. I went to see what she wanted, and she said she
wanted to divide her things. I said, 'Well, mother, we don't want anything
you've got; we want you. We have got you, and that's all we want.' 'Yes,
but I want to do something.' I said to her, ' Then write out what you
want, and I will carry it out.' That didn't satisfy her. Finally she said,
Dwight, I want them all to have something.' That was my mother, and that was
the way she bound us to her.
"Now, I have brought the old Bible, the family Bible, for it all
came from that book. That is about the only book we had in the house when
father died, and out of the book she taught us. And if my mother has been
a blessing to this world, it is because she drank at this fountain. I have
read twice at family worship, and will read here a few verses which she has
marked.
VERSES SHE MARKED
"'Who can find a virtuous
woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely
trust in her.'
"She has been a widow for fifty-four years, and yet she loved her husband
the day she died as much as she ever did. I never heard one word, and she
never taught her children to do anything but just reverence our father. She
loved him right up to the last.
"'She seeketh wool and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.'
"That is my mother.
"She considereth a field and buyeth it; with the fruit of her
hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength and strengtheneth
her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good, her candle goeth not
out by night.'
Widow Moody's light had burned on that hill for fifty-four years, in that
one room. We built a room for her, where she could be more comfortable, but
she was not often there. There was just one room where she wanted to be. Her
children were born there, her first sorrow came there, and that was where
God had met her. That is the place she liked to stay, where her children liked
to meet her, where she worked and toiled and wept.
"'She stretcheth out her hands to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her
hands to the needy.'
"Now, there is one thing about my mother, she never turned away any poor
from her home. There was one time we got down to less than a loaf of bread.
Some one came along hungry, and she says, ' Now, children, shall I
cut your slices a little thinner and give some to this person?' And we all
voted for her to do it. That is the way she taught us.
"'She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household
are clothed with scarlet.'
"She would let the neighbours' boys in all over the house, and track
in snow; and when there was going to be a party she would say, 'Who will stay
with me? I will be all alone; why don't you ask them to come here?' In that
way she kept them all at home, and knew where her children were. The door
was never locked at night until she knew they were all in bed, safe and secure.
Nothing was too hard for her if she could only spare her children.
I HONOR HER FOR THE PUNISHMENT
I GOT
"The seven boys were like
Hannibal, whose mother took him to the altar and made him swear vengeance
on Rome. She took us to the altar and made us swear vengeance on whiskey,
and everything that was an enemy to the human family; and we have been fighting
it ever since and will to the end of our days.
"My mother used to punish me. I honour her for that. I do not
object to punishment. She used to send me out to get a stick. It would take
a long time to get it, and then I used to get a dead stick if I could. She
would try it and, if it would break easily, then I had to go and get another.
She was not in a hurry and did not tell me to hurry, because she knew all
the time that I was being punished. I would go out and be gone a long time.
When I came in, she would tell me to take off my coat, and then she would
put the birch on; and I remember once I said, 'That doesn't hurt.'
She put it on all the harder, and I never said that the second time. And once
in awhile she would take me and she would say, 'You know I would rather put
this on myself than to put it on you.' I would look up and see tears in her
eyes. That was enough for me.
"What more can I say? You have lived with her and you know her. I want
to give you one verse, her creed. Her creed was very short. Do you know what
it was? I will tell you what it was. When everything went against her, this
was her stay, 'My trust is in God. My trust is in God.' And when the
neighbours would come in and I tell her to bind out her children, she would
say, Not as long as I have these two hands.' ' Well,' they would say,
'you know one woman cannot bring up seven boys; they will turn up in jail,
or with a rope around their necks.' She toiled on, and none of us went to
jail, and none of us has had a rope around his neck. And if every one had
a mother like that mother, if the world was mothered by that kind of mothers,
there would be no use for jails.
Here is a book (a little book of devotions); this and the Bible were about
all the books she had in those days; and every morning she would stand us
up and read out of this book. All through the book I find things marked.
"Every Saturday night - we used to begin to observe the Sabbath at sundown
Saturday night, and at sundown Sunday night we would run out and throw up
our caps and let off our jubilant spirits - this is what she would give us
Saturday night, and it has gone with me through life. Not all of it, I could
not remember it all:
'How pleasant it is on Saturday
night
When I've tried all the week to be good.'
"And on Sunday she always
started us off to Sunday school. It was not a debatable question whether we
should go or not. All the family attended.
"I do not know, of course, we do not know, whether the departed ones
are conscious of what is going on earth. If I knew that she was I would send
a message that we are coming after her. If I could, I believe I would send
a message after her, not only for the family, and the town, but for the Seminary.
She was always so much interested in the young ladies of the Seminary. She
seemed to be as young as any of them, and entered into the joys of the young
people just as much as any one. I want to say to the young ladies of the Seminary,
who acted as maids of honour to escort my mother down to the church this morning,
that I want you to trust my mother's Saviour.
"I want to say to the young men of Mt. Hermon, you are going to have
a great honour to escort mother to her last resting-place. Her prayers for
you ascended daily to the throne of grace. Now, I am going to give you the
best I have; I am going to do the best I can; I am going to lay her away with
her face toward Hermon
"SHE WAS TRUE AS SUNLIGHT
I think she is one of the noblest
characters this world has ever seen. She was true as sunlight; I never knew
that woman to deceive me.
I want to thank Dr. Scofield for the comforting words he has brought us to-day.
It is a day of rejoicing, not of regret. She went without pain, without struggle,
just like a person going to sleep. And now we are to lay her body away to
await His coming in resurrection power. When I see her in the morning she
is to have a glorious body. The body Moses had on the Mount of Transfiguration
was a better body than God buried on Pisgah. When we see Elijah he will have
a glorious body. 'That dear mother, when I see her again, is going to have
a glorified body. (looking at her face) God bless you, mother; we love you
still. Death has only increased our love for you. Good-bye for a little while.
Mother. Let us pray."
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